Saturday, July 21, 2012

Can Someone Fake Having Dementia?

Now you may wonder why would I ask such a stupid question. Why would anyone in their right mind would want to fake having memory loss. Well, some are faking Dementia for attention , but that doesn't last long, because they won't be able to fool people that's always around them for long.But there is also another kind of faking Dementia, and that is a person having Dementia and trying to fool everyone that they are not having memory loss.

When a person starts losing their memory, they are the first to notice it. As the progression takes place most of them try to still be as independent as they can, because they notice what is happening to them. My father has had Alzheimer's for over 15 years, but when he first began to get symptoms of Dementia, he was capable of covering it up quite well.If a person he has known all of his life were to see him and he didn't quite recognized them right off, he would steer the conversation so the person could give him the information he needed to figure out things. It was only when he started repeating himself often that raised our attention that something was wrong.

Dementia has to be a very scary thing for elder's who are going through it. Not only elders, but anyone who has had head injuries. My nephew, who is 29 years old suffered a serious car accident back in 2003. The accident has had a very depressing affect on him because he wants to be as normal as possible.He has bad memory laspe on certain days where he will leave home walking and not know where he was going or how to get home.We are thankful we have neighbors that help us look out for him when this happens. I asked him does he know when he have those memory laspe, and he said yes he gets very confused at times.

When a person is pretending there is nothing wrong it's not like they are trying to cause harm, they are just scared of what's happening and don't know how people will treat them once it's found out.So many battered women do this. They go about their everyday life pretending that everything is ok, because they are afraid of what others will think.

Nobody knows their mother and father like their children. If they are being forgetful more than usual, but trying to cover it up with excuses, then you need to get them checked out. It was only when my dad started repeating himself often and then started putting on his clothes while still having on his pajamas , that we knew for a fact something was wrong.

There are always true signs of Dementia that will always give a person up who are trying to fake it. Pay attention when you start suspecting something is wrong.Not wanting to let others know something is wrong is a way for them to keep their independence.

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